I am SO blessed that I am marrying an AMAZING woman very soon. As I read Proverbs 31 tonight, I am reminded by God that I am one lucky man to be marrying a woman of this sort of character!
A few verses that stick out: 11, 12, 17, 20, 25, 26, 27, 28, 30, and 31.
Take a look at those verses when you get the chance. When you do so, remember that this is the Word of God we are speaking of, and these things MATTER in our lives. HAVING a wife of this noble character is nothing to overlook in our lives. Just the same, BEING a wife of noble character is something every bride should strive for, as the Bible tells us the outcome of her life and efforts.
All I know is that I can't wait to have Kelly as my bride....Thanks God...you are SOOOO good!
Peace out!
Wednesday, August 31, 2011
Tuesday, August 30, 2011
Here's your sign...
On my way home from Paris today (Texas, that is), I saw a sign that read, "IS GOD SATISFIED WITH YOUR LIFE?". I pondered a few things about that sign the rest of the way home.
First, it is pretty cool that someone went to the trouble in the first place to make that sign, and place it where people are ASSURED of seeing it traveling towards Texarkana from Paris on HWY 82. When you see a sign like that, you have to answer it in some form or fashion. It might be that you read it and ponder life, and it might be that you read it and think someone was really stupid for doing that. It might also be any sort of thought that falls inbetween those two. BUT....it makes you stop and acknowledge it. You can't deny that.
Second, it makes my heart hurt knowing that some people will absolutely see that sign and laugh about the fact that they think my God and my Jesus are a joke. I don't have to explain that---it just hurts me.
Finally, it made me think about what being satisfied means. Does that mean that we are living sinless and perfect lives? Does that mean that we are Bible-thumping extremists who are close minded and so far to one side that we can't even communicate with non-believers? Personally, I think that question has alot to do with the word "striving". I think if we put unecessary pressure on ourselves to be perfect---something we will NEVER achieve---we only set ourselves up for failure. I think this sign should instead cause us to take a snapshot of today, then be motivated to move further along the path that leads to Godliness. It might be baby steps. It might take a looooooong time to get where you'd like. Either way, it all gets chalked up towards growth and progress. That is NEVER a bad thing.
So ask yourself that question. What does it mean to you in your life? How else do you see it? I'd love to know and hear from you!
Make a difference out there this week! Thanks a ton for stopping in...
First, it is pretty cool that someone went to the trouble in the first place to make that sign, and place it where people are ASSURED of seeing it traveling towards Texarkana from Paris on HWY 82. When you see a sign like that, you have to answer it in some form or fashion. It might be that you read it and ponder life, and it might be that you read it and think someone was really stupid for doing that. It might also be any sort of thought that falls inbetween those two. BUT....it makes you stop and acknowledge it. You can't deny that.
Second, it makes my heart hurt knowing that some people will absolutely see that sign and laugh about the fact that they think my God and my Jesus are a joke. I don't have to explain that---it just hurts me.
Finally, it made me think about what being satisfied means. Does that mean that we are living sinless and perfect lives? Does that mean that we are Bible-thumping extremists who are close minded and so far to one side that we can't even communicate with non-believers? Personally, I think that question has alot to do with the word "striving". I think if we put unecessary pressure on ourselves to be perfect---something we will NEVER achieve---we only set ourselves up for failure. I think this sign should instead cause us to take a snapshot of today, then be motivated to move further along the path that leads to Godliness. It might be baby steps. It might take a looooooong time to get where you'd like. Either way, it all gets chalked up towards growth and progress. That is NEVER a bad thing.
So ask yourself that question. What does it mean to you in your life? How else do you see it? I'd love to know and hear from you!
Make a difference out there this week! Thanks a ton for stopping in...
Monday, August 29, 2011
Moves me...
Two times this weekend I was in a setting where a mass of people were just praising and worshipping. I've gotta tell you, I was moved to tears a couple of times just standing in awe of how cool God is!
At the Mercy Me concert before the Ranger game Saturday, it amazed me to just sit and watch people, young and old, express their love and adoration for the Lord through music. I think God showed me a deeper understanding of what it means to be free in Christ, and also gave me a better sense of freedom myself.
Then Sunday night, he only further solidified that in me, as I got to sit in our worship center at HBC and watch Kale and the crew ROCK the house in the name of the Lord!
It literally just stopped everything else in my life for a few minutes. I couldn't help but just sit and watch people singing, dancing, lifting their hands, shouting lyrics that set them free---and doing it there together inside a group of fellow believers.
Worship is SO powerful....BELIEVE IT!!!
Thanks God...you are so very good to me...
At the Mercy Me concert before the Ranger game Saturday, it amazed me to just sit and watch people, young and old, express their love and adoration for the Lord through music. I think God showed me a deeper understanding of what it means to be free in Christ, and also gave me a better sense of freedom myself.
Then Sunday night, he only further solidified that in me, as I got to sit in our worship center at HBC and watch Kale and the crew ROCK the house in the name of the Lord!
It literally just stopped everything else in my life for a few minutes. I couldn't help but just sit and watch people singing, dancing, lifting their hands, shouting lyrics that set them free---and doing it there together inside a group of fellow believers.
Worship is SO powerful....BELIEVE IT!!!
Thanks God...you are so very good to me...
Saturday, August 27, 2011
Reruns...
This morning, I wanted to bite the bullet and do my first "re-post". So, here are a few that I find myself re-reading more than others:
4-18-2011
Preparation, preparation, preparation...
What are we living for? What are YOU living for? Each day, what is your purpose? What are you working towards? I don't mean in your job. Or with your finances. I mean the bigger picture. Life.
The way I see it, we are suppossed to be living out the Great Commission first and foremost. From there, it is about growing with God more and more everyday. Everyday we should be prepared to face any opportunity, circumstance, or detail that comes our way.
What if tragedy here on earth struck your life right now? Are you prepared to deal with it and handle it? What would you turn to? What things in your life today would be pushed away and deemed non-important in the event of that? Well, then I ask, why are they in your life today? If they have nothing to do with truth, facts, and growing in your faith in God---becoming more and more Christ-like---then they should have no place, right?
I can't help but look at all of the negative in the world and think about how much people tend to focus on bad things. People love tearing each other down. They love picking fights, bickering, selfishness, pride, arrogance, money, etc, etc, etc. I could go on and on. We are all guilty of it atleast sometimes. I just hope I am always quick to recognize it and even quicker to stomp on it and remove it from my life.
Those things send a negative witness out there. What does that tell others about our Savior when we act that way? Are you a blessing to others, or a curse?
Just some food for thought this week.
I watched the Passion of the Christ last night. Man....that hurts to see. To see those soldiers and people treating MY Jesus that way. Breaks my heart.
Lord, forgive me where I fail you. Fill my heart with your Word, humility, love, forgiveness, joy, and thankfulness. Your peace and strength carry me through my everyday, and I give you all the glory for anything I am that is good.
I love you Lord.
6-2-2011
God's timing...
Well, here I sit at 6:30a.m., in my boxer briefs, watching Gus stab his horse in Lonesome Dove. LOL. I have been awake spending time with God since 4:23a.m. Definitely God's timing, not mine. And definitely some serious things to think about on my mind.
You know, I have gone through a divorce. And as I stare some other relationship issues in the face, God has taken me to 1 Corinthians 13 this morning in pursuit of his truth and will for my life. Not easy. And if you are in a marriage or relationship this morning, then I hope you take the rest of this to heart.
Have you closely read that chapter? Well, let's start further back. Do you WANT God's best for your life? Do you want a relationship and love to be ALL that HE wants it to be for you? If the answer is yes, then think about these verses and what God means in them. If the answer is no, then you might as well prepare for heartache and get on your own and move on!
God's word is clear.
In verse 2, towards the beginning of the "love" chapter, it states that "and if I have a faith that can move mountians, but have not love, then I am nothing". Wow. When you take God's word literally, as we are suppossed to, that hits home. Who among us wants to be nothing? God did not create us for that!
Verse 6 says that "Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth". Powerful stuff. Are we daily living in truth? Facts are, we either choose God in a situation, or we don't.
Verse 8 says that "Love never fails". Never is a STRONG word. Don't most people say "never say never"? God said never right there. STRONG.
But the verse that speaks to me most this morning and convicts me is verse 7. "It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, and always perseveres." Always is another of those strong words. Always is always. I didn't do that in my marriage, but praise God that I have learned to give that my best now.
What does it mean to "protect" love? Think about that. To me, it means that in EVERY instance, if you truly love someone, you think of them and honor both God and them by making the choices that respects that love. You don't flirt, you don't leave yourself open to known temptations or past failures Satan has used against you, you proactively and selflessly put the other first, and most of all, you hold yourself accountable to seeking God with all you have to be in the best position possible to honor that love. To me, that is TRUE, GODLY LOVE.
That is where it is on us. I suffer consequences in my life for not pursuing God first in my marriage. My beautiful children suffer because of my actions. That isn't easy to live with, but God is faithful and merciful and has worked in this. I have accepted that, and have made the changes that I needed to make so that I can best avoid EVER having that happen again. I want only God's best when it comes to love and a love relationship. Any of us that say we want that have an INDIVIDUAL ACCOUNTABILITY in our own lives that we HAVE to live to. Period. God wants and has called us to NO less. Again, think about that.
So wherever you are today, whatever situation in a love relationship you are in, or not in, think about what God says about love. Think not only of what it should look like, but even more about YOUR part in honoring God in love.
Then think about when we say we love God. Do we really show it? Do we only think about human love relationships when we read that chapter in 1 Corinthians? Or do we rightly hold our love relationship with God to the same standards?
Again, think about that...
There are three or four others that I often find myself going back to for encouragement. I will leave those for another "re-post" day, seeing as how that was alot of reading right there already!
I pray your weekend is filled with great joy, and that you ask God to show you the many ways that he blesses you....then just listen....he is so very faithful!!!
Now, off to the Ranger game!!!
4-18-2011
Preparation, preparation, preparation...
What are we living for? What are YOU living for? Each day, what is your purpose? What are you working towards? I don't mean in your job. Or with your finances. I mean the bigger picture. Life.
The way I see it, we are suppossed to be living out the Great Commission first and foremost. From there, it is about growing with God more and more everyday. Everyday we should be prepared to face any opportunity, circumstance, or detail that comes our way.
What if tragedy here on earth struck your life right now? Are you prepared to deal with it and handle it? What would you turn to? What things in your life today would be pushed away and deemed non-important in the event of that? Well, then I ask, why are they in your life today? If they have nothing to do with truth, facts, and growing in your faith in God---becoming more and more Christ-like---then they should have no place, right?
I can't help but look at all of the negative in the world and think about how much people tend to focus on bad things. People love tearing each other down. They love picking fights, bickering, selfishness, pride, arrogance, money, etc, etc, etc. I could go on and on. We are all guilty of it atleast sometimes. I just hope I am always quick to recognize it and even quicker to stomp on it and remove it from my life.
Those things send a negative witness out there. What does that tell others about our Savior when we act that way? Are you a blessing to others, or a curse?
Just some food for thought this week.
I watched the Passion of the Christ last night. Man....that hurts to see. To see those soldiers and people treating MY Jesus that way. Breaks my heart.
Lord, forgive me where I fail you. Fill my heart with your Word, humility, love, forgiveness, joy, and thankfulness. Your peace and strength carry me through my everyday, and I give you all the glory for anything I am that is good.
I love you Lord.
6-2-2011
God's timing...
Well, here I sit at 6:30a.m., in my boxer briefs, watching Gus stab his horse in Lonesome Dove. LOL. I have been awake spending time with God since 4:23a.m. Definitely God's timing, not mine. And definitely some serious things to think about on my mind.
You know, I have gone through a divorce. And as I stare some other relationship issues in the face, God has taken me to 1 Corinthians 13 this morning in pursuit of his truth and will for my life. Not easy. And if you are in a marriage or relationship this morning, then I hope you take the rest of this to heart.
Have you closely read that chapter? Well, let's start further back. Do you WANT God's best for your life? Do you want a relationship and love to be ALL that HE wants it to be for you? If the answer is yes, then think about these verses and what God means in them. If the answer is no, then you might as well prepare for heartache and get on your own and move on!
God's word is clear.
In verse 2, towards the beginning of the "love" chapter, it states that "and if I have a faith that can move mountians, but have not love, then I am nothing". Wow. When you take God's word literally, as we are suppossed to, that hits home. Who among us wants to be nothing? God did not create us for that!
Verse 6 says that "Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth". Powerful stuff. Are we daily living in truth? Facts are, we either choose God in a situation, or we don't.
Verse 8 says that "Love never fails". Never is a STRONG word. Don't most people say "never say never"? God said never right there. STRONG.
But the verse that speaks to me most this morning and convicts me is verse 7. "It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, and always perseveres." Always is another of those strong words. Always is always. I didn't do that in my marriage, but praise God that I have learned to give that my best now.
What does it mean to "protect" love? Think about that. To me, it means that in EVERY instance, if you truly love someone, you think of them and honor both God and them by making the choices that respects that love. You don't flirt, you don't leave yourself open to known temptations or past failures Satan has used against you, you proactively and selflessly put the other first, and most of all, you hold yourself accountable to seeking God with all you have to be in the best position possible to honor that love. To me, that is TRUE, GODLY LOVE.
That is where it is on us. I suffer consequences in my life for not pursuing God first in my marriage. My beautiful children suffer because of my actions. That isn't easy to live with, but God is faithful and merciful and has worked in this. I have accepted that, and have made the changes that I needed to make so that I can best avoid EVER having that happen again. I want only God's best when it comes to love and a love relationship. Any of us that say we want that have an INDIVIDUAL ACCOUNTABILITY in our own lives that we HAVE to live to. Period. God wants and has called us to NO less. Again, think about that.
So wherever you are today, whatever situation in a love relationship you are in, or not in, think about what God says about love. Think not only of what it should look like, but even more about YOUR part in honoring God in love.
Then think about when we say we love God. Do we really show it? Do we only think about human love relationships when we read that chapter in 1 Corinthians? Or do we rightly hold our love relationship with God to the same standards?
Again, think about that...
There are three or four others that I often find myself going back to for encouragement. I will leave those for another "re-post" day, seeing as how that was alot of reading right there already!
I pray your weekend is filled with great joy, and that you ask God to show you the many ways that he blesses you....then just listen....he is so very faithful!!!
Now, off to the Ranger game!!!
Stoked...
I am SO excited about heading to Dallas with Kelly and our boys to hit the Ranger game vs the Angels! Great win tonight, so should be a good one! And MERCY ME is playing a concert before the game!!!!!
Tonight was one of the greatest ever in my life, and I am super-excited to go through the rest of this weekend!!!
Tonight was one of the greatest ever in my life, and I am super-excited to go through the rest of this weekend!!!
Thursday, August 25, 2011
Once again...
Random Thoughts by Tommy...
-My Rangers need to get their crap together. If the playoffs had started this week, we would've been playing Boston with home-field advantage...well...Boston came in here and beat the stinkin doo out of us!!! Gotta right this ship boys! Especially while I'm there Saturday night hearing Mercy Me and taking in a game vs the Halo's!!!
-GOP nomination will be interesting this year. I haven't started listening to each candidate's specific platforms yet, but I am excited to do so soon. I'd love to see a debate between Chris Christie, Rick Perry, Michelle Bachman, and Sarah Palin....now THAT would be some TV!
-Jeb Bush is showing up alot on Fox News....hmmm...I'm just saying....I think he makes a run at some point in the future. Not this year, but down the road. I have told many people that my own personal opinion is that W's book "Decision Points" coupled with Obama being the village idiot would greatly open that door for the Bush dynasty to put another notch in the belt...
-The Miami Hurricanes BETTER get the death penalty from the NCAA. This sure ain't their first rodeo!!!
-I love coaching kids. I love seeing the look that they get in their eye and the confidence they gain when they know without a shadow of a doubt that you believe in them. Nothing like it. As MJ said, "I believe the children are our future......" Encourage a child this week. You WILL make a difference in their life!!
-Three shows I find myself most watching these days: Billy the Exterminator, Hillbilly Hand Fishin, and Storage Wars
-I hope you see everyone else as more important than yourself. Life is so much better when we take the "us" out of it. Make it about someone else. Focus on not expecting anything back, but rather only on showing kindness to others. Watch what happens....
-I'm excited and ready for bounceback seasons from my Cowboys and my Horns!!! WOOOHOOO!!!
Have an awesome Friday!!!!!!!!!!
-My Rangers need to get their crap together. If the playoffs had started this week, we would've been playing Boston with home-field advantage...well...Boston came in here and beat the stinkin doo out of us!!! Gotta right this ship boys! Especially while I'm there Saturday night hearing Mercy Me and taking in a game vs the Halo's!!!
-GOP nomination will be interesting this year. I haven't started listening to each candidate's specific platforms yet, but I am excited to do so soon. I'd love to see a debate between Chris Christie, Rick Perry, Michelle Bachman, and Sarah Palin....now THAT would be some TV!
-Jeb Bush is showing up alot on Fox News....hmmm...I'm just saying....I think he makes a run at some point in the future. Not this year, but down the road. I have told many people that my own personal opinion is that W's book "Decision Points" coupled with Obama being the village idiot would greatly open that door for the Bush dynasty to put another notch in the belt...
-The Miami Hurricanes BETTER get the death penalty from the NCAA. This sure ain't their first rodeo!!!
-I love coaching kids. I love seeing the look that they get in their eye and the confidence they gain when they know without a shadow of a doubt that you believe in them. Nothing like it. As MJ said, "I believe the children are our future......" Encourage a child this week. You WILL make a difference in their life!!
-Three shows I find myself most watching these days: Billy the Exterminator, Hillbilly Hand Fishin, and Storage Wars
-I hope you see everyone else as more important than yourself. Life is so much better when we take the "us" out of it. Make it about someone else. Focus on not expecting anything back, but rather only on showing kindness to others. Watch what happens....
-I'm excited and ready for bounceback seasons from my Cowboys and my Horns!!! WOOOHOOO!!!
Have an awesome Friday!!!!!!!!!!
Tuesday, August 23, 2011
Forgiveness...
I wanna kick a shout out to Chad for providing some timely words today...thanks brother!
Hebrews 10:22
let us draw near to God with a sincere heart in full assurance of faith, having our hearts sprinkled to cleanse us from a guilty conscience and having our bodies washed with pure water
Matthew 6:14-15
For if you forgive men when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.
Some great words right there. The verse in Hebrews is such a sweet one that offers a reminder of God's forgiveness to us via the blood of Jesus. Then the passage in Matthew is a great reminder from Christ himself to us in how we should act towards others. The thing that most stuck out to me in that is that sometimes it seems that we hold things against people that weren't actually even done to us in the first place! I guess that we see clearly how that verse matters, since if we can't or won't forgive, we end up harboring the anger or frustration inside of ourselves as long as we can stand it. Then, since we obviously don't wanna take it to God at that point and wanna act like we can hide it from him although we all know better, we go to someone else with our frustration and start the gossip and not-my-business train. WHOOT WHOOT, ALL ABOARD!!
I pray I get better at handling these things the right way all of the time. Lord, draw me closer to you, and keep your words and commands close to my heart, that I might live my life bringing you as much glory as possible. Thanks for Jesus, our example. Make me more like him, Lord.
Have a great Wednesday out there!
Hebrews 10:22
let us draw near to God with a sincere heart in full assurance of faith, having our hearts sprinkled to cleanse us from a guilty conscience and having our bodies washed with pure water
Matthew 6:14-15
For if you forgive men when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.
Some great words right there. The verse in Hebrews is such a sweet one that offers a reminder of God's forgiveness to us via the blood of Jesus. Then the passage in Matthew is a great reminder from Christ himself to us in how we should act towards others. The thing that most stuck out to me in that is that sometimes it seems that we hold things against people that weren't actually even done to us in the first place! I guess that we see clearly how that verse matters, since if we can't or won't forgive, we end up harboring the anger or frustration inside of ourselves as long as we can stand it. Then, since we obviously don't wanna take it to God at that point and wanna act like we can hide it from him although we all know better, we go to someone else with our frustration and start the gossip and not-my-business train. WHOOT WHOOT, ALL ABOARD!!
I pray I get better at handling these things the right way all of the time. Lord, draw me closer to you, and keep your words and commands close to my heart, that I might live my life bringing you as much glory as possible. Thanks for Jesus, our example. Make me more like him, Lord.
Have a great Wednesday out there!
Monday, August 22, 2011
To and fro...
It is amazing what God allows us to see when we want to see more. Tonight I had the opportunity to just hang out with a guy I think alot of and just chill. Some talking, some nachos, some baseball---just good ole fellowshippin! What started out as us setting a chance to just get together, God turned into an opportunity to bless and teach both of us. We are both at different places and going through different things in our lives, yet God used one common encounter to show us each many different things individually. It's amazing what God can do with an open mind, a willingness to learn, a willingness to share, and a desire for growth.
That is just some pretty awesome stuff. Thanks God.
Like Forrest Gump says, "that's all I've got to say about that."
Remember, we are all either running from something or working towards something. The difference in those two things is attitude and outlook. Think about that...
That is just some pretty awesome stuff. Thanks God.
Like Forrest Gump says, "that's all I've got to say about that."
Remember, we are all either running from something or working towards something. The difference in those two things is attitude and outlook. Think about that...
Sunday, August 21, 2011
None But Jesus...
I try to always give all I have to our praise and worship time at church Sunday mornings, but sometimes God uses certain songs or moments to really speak to me moreso than others. This morning, he used "None But Jesus" by Hillsong to do just that.
I can't even tell you the words of the song right now. What I CAN tell you is that you should look it up and listen to it!
I was standing there listening to it during church, and as the song went on, all I could do was think of all the miracles that are in the Bible, and also was picturing myself living in the days of Jesus. I pictured myself as one of the sinners that had the opportunity to have a literal and physical encounter with him, and what it might have been like to walk away from that, living a life that was forever changed! Telling people daily every chance I got how great Christ is, and that my life was never the same after I came to know him! What a journey we are all on as his children...
I thank God for moments like that. I thank him for miracles that we can read about, and know that they are TRUE and FACTUAL, just as his word is. I thank God that he STILL performs miracles today.
My faith is in you, Lord.
I can't even tell you the words of the song right now. What I CAN tell you is that you should look it up and listen to it!
I was standing there listening to it during church, and as the song went on, all I could do was think of all the miracles that are in the Bible, and also was picturing myself living in the days of Jesus. I pictured myself as one of the sinners that had the opportunity to have a literal and physical encounter with him, and what it might have been like to walk away from that, living a life that was forever changed! Telling people daily every chance I got how great Christ is, and that my life was never the same after I came to know him! What a journey we are all on as his children...
I thank God for moments like that. I thank him for miracles that we can read about, and know that they are TRUE and FACTUAL, just as his word is. I thank God that he STILL performs miracles today.
My faith is in you, Lord.
Saturday, August 20, 2011
Just in awe...
I find it amazing that God reveals things to us. I had an instance of that today. I have more peace and direction in my life than I feel like I have ever had. God today decided to use this period to stop me and reveal some lessons that I have had the pleasure of learning. The biggest takeaways from this for me are that the Bible is SO real and true, and also that each and every choice we make each and every day leads to a certain outcome---it is just a matter of which road that outcome is on. For example, when I eat a blizzard, I know what path that is leading me down. When I refrain and make a healthier choice more often, I go down a better road personally and physically. It's about knowing and desiring the best for our own lives, and trusting the Spirit to lead us down THAT path and towards THOSE outcomes.
Anyway, I just wanted to give God glory for how awesome and powerful he is tonight!
Anyway, I just wanted to give God glory for how awesome and powerful he is tonight!
Friday, August 19, 2011
Four points...
Four things that I put a "*" next to in the chapter on kindness and goodness from one of the books I am reading, "The Practice of Godliness", by Jerry Bridges:
-If we feel our particular job does not allow us to genuinely meet the needs of people, we ought to prayerfully consider a change
-Good deeds should begin at home
-Remember that we are responsible not for doing all of the good that needs to be done in the world, but rather just what God has planned for us
-We always have time to do what God wants us to do
Think about those four statements for a second. If we take them and apply them to our lives, we will not only change our outlook and attitude to one of more positivity than wherever we might be today, but we will also GREATLY impact and SHOW those around us and in our circle of influence a wonderful example of what a joyous, peaceful, and happy life looks like!
Enjoy your weekend!
-If we feel our particular job does not allow us to genuinely meet the needs of people, we ought to prayerfully consider a change
-Good deeds should begin at home
-Remember that we are responsible not for doing all of the good that needs to be done in the world, but rather just what God has planned for us
-We always have time to do what God wants us to do
Think about those four statements for a second. If we take them and apply them to our lives, we will not only change our outlook and attitude to one of more positivity than wherever we might be today, but we will also GREATLY impact and SHOW those around us and in our circle of influence a wonderful example of what a joyous, peaceful, and happy life looks like!
Enjoy your weekend!
Wednesday, August 17, 2011
Drifting...
Are you just drifting along through life? Do you know which way you are going? Do you care???
If you are seeking answers and direction, then I encourage you TODAY to write down goals and things that you think about or want to accomplish. Then look that list over and think about the things that are currently in your life that are getting in the way---AND KICK THEM THE CRAP OUT OF YOUR LIFE IMMEDIATELY!!! I find that once I take the thought from in my head and actually put it on paper, it becomes so much more real, and I can then start thinking about the "how to", not just the "what is it"!!! It gives me a greater sense of direction and focus. I love that feeling!!!
Just a little somethin somethin to ponder on :)
If you are seeking answers and direction, then I encourage you TODAY to write down goals and things that you think about or want to accomplish. Then look that list over and think about the things that are currently in your life that are getting in the way---AND KICK THEM THE CRAP OUT OF YOUR LIFE IMMEDIATELY!!! I find that once I take the thought from in my head and actually put it on paper, it becomes so much more real, and I can then start thinking about the "how to", not just the "what is it"!!! It gives me a greater sense of direction and focus. I love that feeling!!!
Just a little somethin somethin to ponder on :)
Tuesday, August 16, 2011
Just some of many...
Here are just some of the many things that occurred in my day to make it fantastic:
-A nurse called needing samples of my drug because her doctors are using them all up
-I got to see one of my best friends, his wife, his daughter, and his granddaughter today
-I got to see Cheffrey and eat one of his burgers
-I had lunch with a new buddy that I am becoming fast friends with, and God is going to use that
-My bills are paid
-I have cleaned out alot of my apartment's closets and have things to take to sell or give away
-My quiet time was fantastic
-I learned how to pray specifically for a few people
-A friend's son had a successful procedure that will make that child's life SO much better
-I didn't get to see my girl or her boys, but I know they are having a blast together on vacation
-I found out she bought me something today
-I bought her a tiny little something today
-I fell more in love today
-I got to cook with my kids
-I played Yahtzee with my kids
-I got to do baths and showers with my kids
-I got to clean and do work around my apartment with my kids
-I got to snuggle with my kids and kiss them goodnight on their sweet little faces
-I bought groceries....some people can't
-I got to swim with my kids
-I got to hear my mom's voice
-I get to watch my Rangers
I could go on and on....but I just wanted to share the things I LOOK FOR in my day. The blessings are there because I choose to see them as such, and I thank God so very much for all of the simple and small things in my life. God, you are SO good!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Be a blessing and make a difference out there!
-A nurse called needing samples of my drug because her doctors are using them all up
-I got to see one of my best friends, his wife, his daughter, and his granddaughter today
-I got to see Cheffrey and eat one of his burgers
-I had lunch with a new buddy that I am becoming fast friends with, and God is going to use that
-My bills are paid
-I have cleaned out alot of my apartment's closets and have things to take to sell or give away
-My quiet time was fantastic
-I learned how to pray specifically for a few people
-A friend's son had a successful procedure that will make that child's life SO much better
-I didn't get to see my girl or her boys, but I know they are having a blast together on vacation
-I found out she bought me something today
-I bought her a tiny little something today
-I fell more in love today
-I got to cook with my kids
-I played Yahtzee with my kids
-I got to do baths and showers with my kids
-I got to clean and do work around my apartment with my kids
-I got to snuggle with my kids and kiss them goodnight on their sweet little faces
-I bought groceries....some people can't
-I got to swim with my kids
-I got to hear my mom's voice
-I get to watch my Rangers
I could go on and on....but I just wanted to share the things I LOOK FOR in my day. The blessings are there because I choose to see them as such, and I thank God so very much for all of the simple and small things in my life. God, you are SO good!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Be a blessing and make a difference out there!
Monday, August 15, 2011
Continuously evolving...
I am so thankful that as we walk with the Holy Spirit, we continue to be molded and shaped differently than we ever were before. I know I constantly have to try to stay on top of where I am in proximity with what the Spirit is telling me, because it is WAY to easy to get off of the right track and back on our own. We are human, and should expect nothing less than that!
As I posted a few weeks ago, I am continuing on a journey towards simplicity. It is easy for me to stay "busy" and "involved" because that is my heart, and I sincerely love people and want the best for them. I have learned that even our best qualities can be used the wrong way if we don't put all reliance of how to use them on the Lord. I am trying to work towards a more "quiet" life, as we are called to have. What specifically that means to each of us, I am learning, and not quite sure of yet. What it means for ME is that I have to continue to check friendships and their importance. Not that people aren't important, but about whether the amount of effort, etc, going into it is what God wants. I have to continually be watching where my time and efforts are spent, and then ask if that is the best use of those things. As God reveals the path ahead of me, I want to be doing my best to be available to give the things he blesses me with ALL of the attention and care that they require and deserve! After all, they are gifts from him!
I have pulled out a "God's Little Instruction Book For Men" paperback book and put it here by my bed on my nightstand. I LOVE things like this! They are incredibly SIMPLE and filled with just alot of meat that we can apply immediately and boldly to our lives. These kinds of books provide great truths and simple facts that we can quickly memorize, stand firmly on, and share as we allow God to mold us. I want to list a few that stood out to me tonight:
-Seek God first and the things you want will seek YOU
-If I take care of my character, my reputation will take care of itself
-Adversity causes some men to break; others to break records
-Conquer yourself rather than the world
-A true friend never gets in your way unless you happen to be going down
The following three were my absolute favorites:
-Experience is not what happens to a man, it's what a man does with what happens to him
-Courage is contagious. When a brave man takes a stand, the spines of others are stiffened
-A man who wants to lead the orchestra must turn his back on the crowd
Think about those. Can you use any of those to inspire positive change that you are desiring in your life?
I thank God with my whole heart for forgiveness and cleansing of my sins. My heart's desire is to wake up everyday and do my best to listen to God, let the Spirit guide me, be a better man than the day before, and be thankful for what I have as oppossed to upset about what I don't. I just wanna do my part. I trust the Lord with the rest!!!
God, you are SOOOOOOOOOOOOO good! Thanks for blessing me with amazing things in my life, and for showing me that a future with those blessings from you is what I want to spend everyday investing in!
As I posted a few weeks ago, I am continuing on a journey towards simplicity. It is easy for me to stay "busy" and "involved" because that is my heart, and I sincerely love people and want the best for them. I have learned that even our best qualities can be used the wrong way if we don't put all reliance of how to use them on the Lord. I am trying to work towards a more "quiet" life, as we are called to have. What specifically that means to each of us, I am learning, and not quite sure of yet. What it means for ME is that I have to continue to check friendships and their importance. Not that people aren't important, but about whether the amount of effort, etc, going into it is what God wants. I have to continually be watching where my time and efforts are spent, and then ask if that is the best use of those things. As God reveals the path ahead of me, I want to be doing my best to be available to give the things he blesses me with ALL of the attention and care that they require and deserve! After all, they are gifts from him!
I have pulled out a "God's Little Instruction Book For Men" paperback book and put it here by my bed on my nightstand. I LOVE things like this! They are incredibly SIMPLE and filled with just alot of meat that we can apply immediately and boldly to our lives. These kinds of books provide great truths and simple facts that we can quickly memorize, stand firmly on, and share as we allow God to mold us. I want to list a few that stood out to me tonight:
-Seek God first and the things you want will seek YOU
-If I take care of my character, my reputation will take care of itself
-Adversity causes some men to break; others to break records
-Conquer yourself rather than the world
-A true friend never gets in your way unless you happen to be going down
The following three were my absolute favorites:
-Experience is not what happens to a man, it's what a man does with what happens to him
-Courage is contagious. When a brave man takes a stand, the spines of others are stiffened
-A man who wants to lead the orchestra must turn his back on the crowd
Think about those. Can you use any of those to inspire positive change that you are desiring in your life?
I thank God with my whole heart for forgiveness and cleansing of my sins. My heart's desire is to wake up everyday and do my best to listen to God, let the Spirit guide me, be a better man than the day before, and be thankful for what I have as oppossed to upset about what I don't. I just wanna do my part. I trust the Lord with the rest!!!
God, you are SOOOOOOOOOOOOO good! Thanks for blessing me with amazing things in my life, and for showing me that a future with those blessings from you is what I want to spend everyday investing in!
Sunday, August 14, 2011
A simple fella...
I struggle with things just like everyone else. Heck, we all have things that we need to work on, right? Well, today, one of my issues in life is how much to care or not care about our government and economy. One one hand, I do care alot. It matters to me, to my kids, for the greater good, etc. It has had great days, and shouldn't be in the state it is in currently. One the other hand though, what do we expect to happen when we have self-serving people in our government as elected leaders, who are out for their own agenda, and DO NOT actually make decisions based on the greater good?
I'm just a simple fella. I will admit quickly that I don't understand everything. Most people are probably way more intelligent than I am. What I do know though is that everything in life comes down to good or bad, of God of not of God, and all is dictated by our attitudes and choices.
Proverbs 14:22
Do not those who plot evil go astray? But those who plan what is good find love and faithfulness.
Most people hear or see the word "evil" and think crazy demonic devil-worshipping. I see evil simply as the opposite of good. Again, attitude is everything. So when it comes to our elected leaders (yes, a reminder that this IS actually OUR own fault), I get frustrated that many get elected and someone is already in their back pocket for helping and their whole agenda is of self-promotion and ultimately self-serving. Can good things come from that? Sure. But is that necessarily acting on what is BEST for people? NO!
Three key words from each half of that verse to take quick note of:
-the first half---plot, evil, astray
-the second half---good, love, faithfulness
Seeing as how I could get fired up over this topic, I am going to wrap it up with two quick things. The first is how this verse applies to your own life. What is your agenda? Is it yours, or is it God's? The second is asking you to join me in praying for our elected leaders, both current and future. We have important obligations as citizens to elect the right people for the right reasons. We also have a voice we can use to let these public officials know what we think, and what we will and won't stand for. USE IT! But first, pray with me today and going forward that God will reveal to us the best people for these jobs. God is good, and our faith and trust have to be in him first. Seems to me that we would be better off if we elected HIM in our hearts and lives FIRST, then follow his lead and see how everything plays out.
Again though, I'm just a simple fella...
I'm just a simple fella. I will admit quickly that I don't understand everything. Most people are probably way more intelligent than I am. What I do know though is that everything in life comes down to good or bad, of God of not of God, and all is dictated by our attitudes and choices.
Proverbs 14:22
Do not those who plot evil go astray? But those who plan what is good find love and faithfulness.
Most people hear or see the word "evil" and think crazy demonic devil-worshipping. I see evil simply as the opposite of good. Again, attitude is everything. So when it comes to our elected leaders (yes, a reminder that this IS actually OUR own fault), I get frustrated that many get elected and someone is already in their back pocket for helping and their whole agenda is of self-promotion and ultimately self-serving. Can good things come from that? Sure. But is that necessarily acting on what is BEST for people? NO!
Three key words from each half of that verse to take quick note of:
-the first half---plot, evil, astray
-the second half---good, love, faithfulness
Seeing as how I could get fired up over this topic, I am going to wrap it up with two quick things. The first is how this verse applies to your own life. What is your agenda? Is it yours, or is it God's? The second is asking you to join me in praying for our elected leaders, both current and future. We have important obligations as citizens to elect the right people for the right reasons. We also have a voice we can use to let these public officials know what we think, and what we will and won't stand for. USE IT! But first, pray with me today and going forward that God will reveal to us the best people for these jobs. God is good, and our faith and trust have to be in him first. Seems to me that we would be better off if we elected HIM in our hearts and lives FIRST, then follow his lead and see how everything plays out.
Again though, I'm just a simple fella...
Saturday, August 13, 2011
Money ain't a thang...
Proverbs 13:8
A man's riches may ransom his life, but a poor man hears no threat.
Think people have been FREAKING out over dinero this week???? I called Kelly one day and said, "It sure is nice to just have nothing, so that this crap doesn't even phase me!"
I think this verse has made alot of sense to me this week, as we have seen SUCH a strong focus on the economy. Not only how it fares overall, but also what it does minute-to-minute. Honestly, I couldn't care less. Proverbs 30 reminds me that I ONLY want my daily bread, and if I have more or less, I might focus too much on that, and lose sight of what matters most.
The thing that I feel MOST reminded of from God this week in regards to all of this is the fact that he is bigger than everything. You hear that? EVERYTHING!!! So our money is his money. Our time is his time. Our life is in his control. So why in the crap worry about this? He has, is, and will always be over everything. He will always provide for us, no matter what! As his children, he has promised us that. So WHY doubt God???
I'm just sayin....think about it!
I wanna say a Happy Birthday to my grandpa Tommy Wilson today. He died when my mom was 17, so I never got the chance to know him. Also, today marks the one-year anniversary of the passing of my Mema. I miss you Betty Wilson!
A man's riches may ransom his life, but a poor man hears no threat.
Think people have been FREAKING out over dinero this week???? I called Kelly one day and said, "It sure is nice to just have nothing, so that this crap doesn't even phase me!"
I think this verse has made alot of sense to me this week, as we have seen SUCH a strong focus on the economy. Not only how it fares overall, but also what it does minute-to-minute. Honestly, I couldn't care less. Proverbs 30 reminds me that I ONLY want my daily bread, and if I have more or less, I might focus too much on that, and lose sight of what matters most.
The thing that I feel MOST reminded of from God this week in regards to all of this is the fact that he is bigger than everything. You hear that? EVERYTHING!!! So our money is his money. Our time is his time. Our life is in his control. So why in the crap worry about this? He has, is, and will always be over everything. He will always provide for us, no matter what! As his children, he has promised us that. So WHY doubt God???
I'm just sayin....think about it!
I wanna say a Happy Birthday to my grandpa Tommy Wilson today. He died when my mom was 17, so I never got the chance to know him. Also, today marks the one-year anniversary of the passing of my Mema. I miss you Betty Wilson!
Friday, August 12, 2011
I'm VERY excited...
I am so excited that this Sunday morning I will be going to hear Pete Chiofalo preach over in Keller. He was mentioned in a blog of mine a few days ago, and I haven't actually seen him in years.
I can't wait!
I am thankful that God impressed in my heart that I should go, as there aren't many opportunities to enjoy things like this. It's the little things in life that sure do matter :)
How often do you MAKE the time to do something out of your routine???
Have an awesome weekend!!!
I can't wait!
I am thankful that God impressed in my heart that I should go, as there aren't many opportunities to enjoy things like this. It's the little things in life that sure do matter :)
How often do you MAKE the time to do something out of your routine???
Have an awesome weekend!!!
Wednesday, August 10, 2011
A special day...
I want to wish my folks a very Happy Anniversary today! They have been married 39 years this year...I think!
Either way, I wanted to just stop and list a few things that I love and appreciate about them on their special day:
-they have ALWAYS taken wonderful care of me
-they have taught me and given me everything they possibly can to make sure I can live my best life
-they adore their grandchildren
-they have always worked hard
-they are very caring
-I find myself more and more like them as I get older
-they care about the things that matter, and put their time and effort into that
-even when we don't see eye to eye, we are committed to what's best and working together no matter what
-they always acted out of what's best for me and my sister, not selfish gain
-they spend time trying to understand me and what matters to me
-they taught us to be appreciative of what we have, not focused on what we don't
Mom and Dad, I love you, and I thank God for you. I love getting closer and closer with you both---not only as a son, but also as a friend---as I get older.
Thanks for being who you are, and have an awesome anniversary!
Either way, I wanted to just stop and list a few things that I love and appreciate about them on their special day:
-they have ALWAYS taken wonderful care of me
-they have taught me and given me everything they possibly can to make sure I can live my best life
-they adore their grandchildren
-they have always worked hard
-they are very caring
-I find myself more and more like them as I get older
-they care about the things that matter, and put their time and effort into that
-even when we don't see eye to eye, we are committed to what's best and working together no matter what
-they always acted out of what's best for me and my sister, not selfish gain
-they spend time trying to understand me and what matters to me
-they taught us to be appreciative of what we have, not focused on what we don't
Mom and Dad, I love you, and I thank God for you. I love getting closer and closer with you both---not only as a son, but also as a friend---as I get older.
Thanks for being who you are, and have an awesome anniversary!
Monday, August 8, 2011
The sound of music...
There is nothing to me like music. There is a song for every circumstance, emotion, feeling, stage of life, etc. I have been fortunate enough to be a part of music from a performance or live aspect since junior high up until just a few years ago. That is one of the things I hope that I get to change sooner than later---God giving me an opportunity to get back to singing somewhere. I sure miss it.
I thank God for giving so many people musical talent that the rest of us can enjoy. I know so many different songs have provided me encouragement and spoken to me at different stages of my life.
Thanks for creating music, Lord :)
I thank God for giving so many people musical talent that the rest of us can enjoy. I know so many different songs have provided me encouragement and spoken to me at different stages of my life.
Thanks for creating music, Lord :)
Difference makers...
I know I try to encourage each of us at the end of most of my posts to make a difference out there. Tonight, I want to just point out a few people that have made a huge impact in my life.
First, I want to clarify this. I have many friends and relatives that are an ongoing part of the growth in my life. These people probably won't be mentioned here. What I am speaking of tonight and focusing on are those that made a difference at a point, yet it was YEARS later before I ever understood just how much of a difference they made.
So, here we go...
There was a family I was close to growing up that was like a second family to me. It was the Jarrett's. John Jarrett was one of my closest friends throughout my school years, and his parents, David and Jane, were a HUGE influence on me. In fact, the more I go through life, them more I actually still think about them and who they are, and what I saw from them. They were a God-fearing couple that kept each other first, yet had such big and loving hearts that everyone they came in contact with felt like they were the most important people in the world! I know they prayed for me, loved me, taught me, and accepted me---for who I was---yet still always desired more for me and saw what my potential could be as a person. I saw how they taught their children, expressed their love openly for their children, yet still disciplined them and held them accountable. When I accepted Christ, Jane Jarrett was the first person I thought of. I think God was opening my eyes to how he had been surrounding me with wonderful people all along my path, and letting me see how he had been working all the time! I can honestly sit here and say that if there were two people I wish I saw more and had more consistent contact and communication with, there is NO doubt it would be David and Jane Jarrett. If you two ever happen to read this, I hope you know I love you with my whole heart!
I am a big believer in Young Life. For me, it is ideal. I see why most people are very turned off by "church" and want nothing to do with it. I have said here before that if I didn't know Jesus already and went to most churches today, I'd want nothing to do with him. Young Life is different. It is geared at high school students, and most times does not actually meet at a church. It is more about relationship building and influencing students at a very important time in their lives, where many decisions will be made, habits formed, and paths laid out. Pete Chiofalo was our YL leader at Trinity High School. I can't say alot about Pete, but I can tell you that he had a huge impact on my life. After I was saved, as I have grown in my walk, God has laid Pete on my heart as an example. He was a guy who was married and had a young child, yet just opened his home, heart, and life up for kids he didn't even know. He made himself available. See, I am a HUGE believer that if you want to give something to someone that actually matters, give them your TIME. It's easy to write a check and give money. We can always find, make, or get more of that. But time is measured. We don't get more than we have, yet we MAKE time for the things we find important. So therefore, Pete gave ALOT in my eyes! I had very limited interaction with Pete then, and have had only one encounter since then, but I can tell you that God was all over EVERY bit of all of them, and I know Pete is still blessing and impacting lives as he pastors a church over in Keller, TX. If you are close by, find him and go see him!
While enjoying the five-year plan at SFA, I was saved. It was probably right at the midway point. After that, I got involved singing and attending at Oak Grove Baptist Church. Jim Carter was the pastor, and his wife Marcy and all of their awesome children became a huge part of my life. While I love them all, and they all loved me unconditionally, there was one of them that really stood out. It was their son, JC. The main reason is that he was probably one of the greatest all-around guys I had met to that point, and that still holds true today. He really encouraged me and hammered life-lessons in every chance he got. He didn't judge me or act like he was better than me. All this while being a young man going through the same things in life that I was---the difference was the integrity he showed every step of the way. His convictions are what guided him, and it was VERY clear to me that those convictions came from reading the Bible, trusting God, knowing Jesus, and walking daily with the Holy Spirit. JC doesn't lead with words, he leads by example. I could go on and on about him. I am fortunate to know him, and thankful God put him in my life. I love you J.
Going through a divorce was one of the toughest things I have ever had to deal with, and I am the one that wanted it! Either way, I was living at the time where most of the people in my life were all related to my church. My circle was mostly maintained inside those walls as far as my relationships and my friendships. So when this happened, I stopped going there, and according to others, was on a path straight to hell. There was really only one person that unconditionally loved me and showed me Jesus through that, and that is one of my closest friends Chris Williams. We are still very tight today, and I am sure glad. I had the chance while we were at church together to watch him grow and change as he grew closer to God. I also know my failures hurt him as a person. That is why it is even more impressive to me and encouraging to me to know that although his human view of my actions and my life were frustrating and he didn't personally agree with, he still NEVER quit on me. That is the kind of thing that makes a HUGE difference in someone's life. Now, I know he probably wanted to at times, and I know he felt pressure from others too bail on me, but he didn't. That to me is an AMAZING example of going out on faith and trusting God. How many of us would stand up to that kind of peer pressure? To know that the people we fellowship with don't agree with what we are doing, yet we stand up for what we believe NO MATTER WHAT, because we are passionnately seeking to follow the Lord and be Jesus in someone else's life. I am forever indebted to Chris for the example he has been to me and in my life. He has taught me so much through his humility, his heart, and his actions. Chris, thank you, and I love you brother. I'd lay down my life for you.
So who are these people in your life? Have you ever thought about that? More importantly, are you living to try to be available to be this in someone else's life?
Get out there and change the world this week!!!
First, I want to clarify this. I have many friends and relatives that are an ongoing part of the growth in my life. These people probably won't be mentioned here. What I am speaking of tonight and focusing on are those that made a difference at a point, yet it was YEARS later before I ever understood just how much of a difference they made.
So, here we go...
There was a family I was close to growing up that was like a second family to me. It was the Jarrett's. John Jarrett was one of my closest friends throughout my school years, and his parents, David and Jane, were a HUGE influence on me. In fact, the more I go through life, them more I actually still think about them and who they are, and what I saw from them. They were a God-fearing couple that kept each other first, yet had such big and loving hearts that everyone they came in contact with felt like they were the most important people in the world! I know they prayed for me, loved me, taught me, and accepted me---for who I was---yet still always desired more for me and saw what my potential could be as a person. I saw how they taught their children, expressed their love openly for their children, yet still disciplined them and held them accountable. When I accepted Christ, Jane Jarrett was the first person I thought of. I think God was opening my eyes to how he had been surrounding me with wonderful people all along my path, and letting me see how he had been working all the time! I can honestly sit here and say that if there were two people I wish I saw more and had more consistent contact and communication with, there is NO doubt it would be David and Jane Jarrett. If you two ever happen to read this, I hope you know I love you with my whole heart!
I am a big believer in Young Life. For me, it is ideal. I see why most people are very turned off by "church" and want nothing to do with it. I have said here before that if I didn't know Jesus already and went to most churches today, I'd want nothing to do with him. Young Life is different. It is geared at high school students, and most times does not actually meet at a church. It is more about relationship building and influencing students at a very important time in their lives, where many decisions will be made, habits formed, and paths laid out. Pete Chiofalo was our YL leader at Trinity High School. I can't say alot about Pete, but I can tell you that he had a huge impact on my life. After I was saved, as I have grown in my walk, God has laid Pete on my heart as an example. He was a guy who was married and had a young child, yet just opened his home, heart, and life up for kids he didn't even know. He made himself available. See, I am a HUGE believer that if you want to give something to someone that actually matters, give them your TIME. It's easy to write a check and give money. We can always find, make, or get more of that. But time is measured. We don't get more than we have, yet we MAKE time for the things we find important. So therefore, Pete gave ALOT in my eyes! I had very limited interaction with Pete then, and have had only one encounter since then, but I can tell you that God was all over EVERY bit of all of them, and I know Pete is still blessing and impacting lives as he pastors a church over in Keller, TX. If you are close by, find him and go see him!
While enjoying the five-year plan at SFA, I was saved. It was probably right at the midway point. After that, I got involved singing and attending at Oak Grove Baptist Church. Jim Carter was the pastor, and his wife Marcy and all of their awesome children became a huge part of my life. While I love them all, and they all loved me unconditionally, there was one of them that really stood out. It was their son, JC. The main reason is that he was probably one of the greatest all-around guys I had met to that point, and that still holds true today. He really encouraged me and hammered life-lessons in every chance he got. He didn't judge me or act like he was better than me. All this while being a young man going through the same things in life that I was---the difference was the integrity he showed every step of the way. His convictions are what guided him, and it was VERY clear to me that those convictions came from reading the Bible, trusting God, knowing Jesus, and walking daily with the Holy Spirit. JC doesn't lead with words, he leads by example. I could go on and on about him. I am fortunate to know him, and thankful God put him in my life. I love you J.
Going through a divorce was one of the toughest things I have ever had to deal with, and I am the one that wanted it! Either way, I was living at the time where most of the people in my life were all related to my church. My circle was mostly maintained inside those walls as far as my relationships and my friendships. So when this happened, I stopped going there, and according to others, was on a path straight to hell. There was really only one person that unconditionally loved me and showed me Jesus through that, and that is one of my closest friends Chris Williams. We are still very tight today, and I am sure glad. I had the chance while we were at church together to watch him grow and change as he grew closer to God. I also know my failures hurt him as a person. That is why it is even more impressive to me and encouraging to me to know that although his human view of my actions and my life were frustrating and he didn't personally agree with, he still NEVER quit on me. That is the kind of thing that makes a HUGE difference in someone's life. Now, I know he probably wanted to at times, and I know he felt pressure from others too bail on me, but he didn't. That to me is an AMAZING example of going out on faith and trusting God. How many of us would stand up to that kind of peer pressure? To know that the people we fellowship with don't agree with what we are doing, yet we stand up for what we believe NO MATTER WHAT, because we are passionnately seeking to follow the Lord and be Jesus in someone else's life. I am forever indebted to Chris for the example he has been to me and in my life. He has taught me so much through his humility, his heart, and his actions. Chris, thank you, and I love you brother. I'd lay down my life for you.
So who are these people in your life? Have you ever thought about that? More importantly, are you living to try to be available to be this in someone else's life?
Get out there and change the world this week!!!
Saturday, August 6, 2011
My time of the month...
Proverbs 6:23 says:
"For these commands are a lamp, this teaching is a light, and the corrections of discipline are the way to life"
That is one simple yet profound statement---and my life, like many others out there, is an example of that. Makes this a bit of a bittersweet verse.
The "bitter" part of that for me is that like anyone else, I have made mistakes in my past. Whether in relationships, finances, friendships, etc...I think we all can stop and find many times that we were playing the game of life nowhere near where we should have been. We have all hurt people at some time or another. That is a hard thing to think about, as most times we stop and think of all of the missed opportunities, or how things could be different now "if I had only...". Sin is present everywhere in our lives, whether we look at the past, present, or future. That is something we will NEVER be able to avoid!
Enough bitter crap though---let's get to the good stuff. The "sweet". God is GOOD! As his child, the Word tells me that I am a new creature. A new being. My old is washed away, my sins both past and future are forgiven, and I have a best friend and companion in the Holy Spirit that walks with me EVERY second! The last part of the verse in Proverbs talk about correction being the way to life. I WANT THE BEST LIFE GOD CAN GIVE ME! So therefore, I am so very thankful for his discipline and for him teaching me, humbling me, molding me, cleansing me, and showing me the path that he wants me to be on. Am I perfect? Not a chance...but I know that daily, I am listening for what God is trying to tell me. I am daily trying to just see his purpose for me in my life, and I have peace and security in who I am, since I am his child before I am anything. THAT is priceless. THAT is good.
I don't know what you are dealing with today. I don't know if you have a relationship with Jesus. What I DO know is that we all sin. We all have to deal with that, and if we don't, Satan will hold that in front of us, and we will never be able to fully focus on what God is trying to do in and through us.
What I hope you get out of this is that although personal failures aren't good, and hurt us and others, they still can be used for good as we move forward, because God can use ANYTHING for good and for his glory. We should never settle or let our past hold us down in bondage. Every single day brings a new day, where we can make new choices, and live as new creatures, focused on making a difference and changing the world---by being as authentic as possible.
BELIEVE THAT!!!
"For these commands are a lamp, this teaching is a light, and the corrections of discipline are the way to life"
That is one simple yet profound statement---and my life, like many others out there, is an example of that. Makes this a bit of a bittersweet verse.
The "bitter" part of that for me is that like anyone else, I have made mistakes in my past. Whether in relationships, finances, friendships, etc...I think we all can stop and find many times that we were playing the game of life nowhere near where we should have been. We have all hurt people at some time or another. That is a hard thing to think about, as most times we stop and think of all of the missed opportunities, or how things could be different now "if I had only...". Sin is present everywhere in our lives, whether we look at the past, present, or future. That is something we will NEVER be able to avoid!
Enough bitter crap though---let's get to the good stuff. The "sweet". God is GOOD! As his child, the Word tells me that I am a new creature. A new being. My old is washed away, my sins both past and future are forgiven, and I have a best friend and companion in the Holy Spirit that walks with me EVERY second! The last part of the verse in Proverbs talk about correction being the way to life. I WANT THE BEST LIFE GOD CAN GIVE ME! So therefore, I am so very thankful for his discipline and for him teaching me, humbling me, molding me, cleansing me, and showing me the path that he wants me to be on. Am I perfect? Not a chance...but I know that daily, I am listening for what God is trying to tell me. I am daily trying to just see his purpose for me in my life, and I have peace and security in who I am, since I am his child before I am anything. THAT is priceless. THAT is good.
I don't know what you are dealing with today. I don't know if you have a relationship with Jesus. What I DO know is that we all sin. We all have to deal with that, and if we don't, Satan will hold that in front of us, and we will never be able to fully focus on what God is trying to do in and through us.
What I hope you get out of this is that although personal failures aren't good, and hurt us and others, they still can be used for good as we move forward, because God can use ANYTHING for good and for his glory. We should never settle or let our past hold us down in bondage. Every single day brings a new day, where we can make new choices, and live as new creatures, focused on making a difference and changing the world---by being as authentic as possible.
BELIEVE THAT!!!
Friday, August 5, 2011
REALLY think about this...
When was the last time you undeniably saw the Spirit at work in or around you?
That question comes from "Forgotten God" by Francis Chan. I like to underline important things that stick out to me as I read. I can tell you that probably 35-40% of the first chapter of this book is underlined. It is a very challenging book to read, as it really challenges who we are, and where our faith truly stands. How much do we rely on the Spirit? Does our life reflect true faith? Do we show in our day that we are different as believers?
Honestly, there are some things in here that slap me right in the face. I have had to stop and look at my life in order to make sure I am going the right direction.
I highly encourage you to pick this book up, as it will cause you to stop and look at things from a view that you probably haven't stopped to look at life from.
Time to hit the sack...gotta be ready and refreshed for Laces of Grace in the morning!
That question comes from "Forgotten God" by Francis Chan. I like to underline important things that stick out to me as I read. I can tell you that probably 35-40% of the first chapter of this book is underlined. It is a very challenging book to read, as it really challenges who we are, and where our faith truly stands. How much do we rely on the Spirit? Does our life reflect true faith? Do we show in our day that we are different as believers?
Honestly, there are some things in here that slap me right in the face. I have had to stop and look at my life in order to make sure I am going the right direction.
I highly encourage you to pick this book up, as it will cause you to stop and look at things from a view that you probably haven't stopped to look at life from.
Time to hit the sack...gotta be ready and refreshed for Laces of Grace in the morning!
Doing good...
Galatians 6:10
Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially those who belong to the family of believers.
What a great verse. Our men's group is has been reading on kindness and goodness this week, and their roles in our lives. This is the first verse mentioned in the chapter, and it really stuck out to me. Anyone that has followed my warped mind knows that I am a lover of "key words" and what they should call us to do or think. So having said that, I am going to type that verse out again, but throw some emphasis in a few areas that jumped out at me:
THEREFORE, as we have OPPORTUNITY, let us DO GOOD to ALL PEOPLE, ESPECIALLY those who BELONG to the family of believers.
Therefore- is emphasized here because any time we see that word in the Bible, it tells us to read ahead, because we have been given instruction and reasoning leading up to where we see it.
Opportunity- opportunity is both given and made. Sometimes it falls in our laps, and that is great. But alot of times it is up to us to create and faithfully pursue opportunity. When it comes to doing good, we should be of the mindset and disposition to be able to react to anything in kindness and goodness, as well as proactively show others kindness and goodness.
Do good- What does that look like? It's the little things in life that make the biggest differences....think about that.
All people- This is pretty self-explanatory. All people is ALL people. The nice ones, the terds, and all of those that fall inbetween!
Especially- One of those key words. So we should be doing this to all people anyway, as we see leading up to this in the verse. But God doesn't stop there. Just for extra emphasis, he clearly reminds us how we should be towards those that believe as we do. How would you say you are doing at that in your life day-to-day? What can you do to better live this out as God wants you to?
Belong- It only takes one thing to belong to this family. Anyone who has accepted Jesus as their Lord and Savior is a member, and we are clearly shown how we should treat this family that we are members of. Will talked this morning that our human families are sometimes the ones that we naturally show our worst to, and take for granted. He is right about that, and it takes effort of walking and growing with God daily to be sure we are giving our best to not only our human families that God has given us, but also our family of believers. God wouldn't lay this verse out if that family wasn't extremely important to him, and we need to be very aware of that fact!
I know it is easy to just get caught up in reading verses, and sometimes we don't see what all can really be taken from just one, but this is one that in the course of this book, really stood out to me. It seems our world has less and less patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, helpfulness, faithfulness, love, etc. That is sad, seeing as how NOW is probably when we need these things the MOST! It is on us as people to cover ourselves in these things, and be a light as we walk out there and live each and every day, offering all of these traits and more to a hurting world.
God's Word is SO very good....I am so VERY thankful for it, and for the direction and wisdom it provides!
Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially those who belong to the family of believers.
What a great verse. Our men's group is has been reading on kindness and goodness this week, and their roles in our lives. This is the first verse mentioned in the chapter, and it really stuck out to me. Anyone that has followed my warped mind knows that I am a lover of "key words" and what they should call us to do or think. So having said that, I am going to type that verse out again, but throw some emphasis in a few areas that jumped out at me:
THEREFORE, as we have OPPORTUNITY, let us DO GOOD to ALL PEOPLE, ESPECIALLY those who BELONG to the family of believers.
Therefore- is emphasized here because any time we see that word in the Bible, it tells us to read ahead, because we have been given instruction and reasoning leading up to where we see it.
Opportunity- opportunity is both given and made. Sometimes it falls in our laps, and that is great. But alot of times it is up to us to create and faithfully pursue opportunity. When it comes to doing good, we should be of the mindset and disposition to be able to react to anything in kindness and goodness, as well as proactively show others kindness and goodness.
Do good- What does that look like? It's the little things in life that make the biggest differences....think about that.
All people- This is pretty self-explanatory. All people is ALL people. The nice ones, the terds, and all of those that fall inbetween!
Especially- One of those key words. So we should be doing this to all people anyway, as we see leading up to this in the verse. But God doesn't stop there. Just for extra emphasis, he clearly reminds us how we should be towards those that believe as we do. How would you say you are doing at that in your life day-to-day? What can you do to better live this out as God wants you to?
Belong- It only takes one thing to belong to this family. Anyone who has accepted Jesus as their Lord and Savior is a member, and we are clearly shown how we should treat this family that we are members of. Will talked this morning that our human families are sometimes the ones that we naturally show our worst to, and take for granted. He is right about that, and it takes effort of walking and growing with God daily to be sure we are giving our best to not only our human families that God has given us, but also our family of believers. God wouldn't lay this verse out if that family wasn't extremely important to him, and we need to be very aware of that fact!
I know it is easy to just get caught up in reading verses, and sometimes we don't see what all can really be taken from just one, but this is one that in the course of this book, really stood out to me. It seems our world has less and less patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, helpfulness, faithfulness, love, etc. That is sad, seeing as how NOW is probably when we need these things the MOST! It is on us as people to cover ourselves in these things, and be a light as we walk out there and live each and every day, offering all of these traits and more to a hurting world.
God's Word is SO very good....I am so VERY thankful for it, and for the direction and wisdom it provides!
Tuesday, August 2, 2011
Almost broke the tv...
Glad I didn't though, because it wasn't mine!!!
I was watching The Bachelorette last night with my lady, and was reminded MANY times just how ridiculous and unrealistic that show is! I think it hurt more when she chose the dude that she did, because I definitely had a mancrush on Ben! LOL!!
I watch that show while remembering and thinking about my life values, morals, goals, etc. So my first lesson was one I already know---I can only control me and my life, and others choices aren't my business, and usually have absolutely zero effect on my future. The girl choosing has her own things she is looking for, and it is not for me too judge right or wrong. All I can do is take other things I see or hear and hold them against what I believe to further strengthen or modify my belief set.
Another thing I have a really hard time with is her "loving" one guy, while at the same time she is still tonguing-down with other dudes! How do you have those suppossedly true feelings for a person, but still be able to live with yourself giving all that to another? Baffles me...just baffles me. Of course, these ARE people that apparently suck at relationships to this point in their lives, so I guess we should expect anything!!
And do you think that real people build real-life relationships living in the slums of FIJI??????? REALLY??????? "Hey, let's take a trip in a helicopter today, then fly in a plane to some island for dinner"....uh....yeah...whatever! I looked over at Kelly and reminded her that I can barely afford to take her to eat at Fuji's, so FORGET Fiji!!!!!
Finally, the last thing (of many!) that I want to mention is being blessed and content in my own life. As I watched the events unfold, and watched the choice come down, I was so glad to feel myself feeling lucky as a person for all of the blessings that God allows into my life daily. As a cup-half-full kind of dude, I thank God for bs like these unrealistic shows, because they always make me stop and thank him for simplicity, peace, and joy. That the reality of pursuing him and his ways will ALWAYS ultimately lead to him and his blessings. I enjoy poking at the show, and don't mind knowing that it is on tv and not a true picture of real life----but the picture of Christ on the cross IS a picture of that---it is the picture of the sacrifice that results in us having the opportunity for the BEST life!
I will take that all day long...so take your rose and shove it Bachelorette!
Hope your week ROCKS!!!
I was watching The Bachelorette last night with my lady, and was reminded MANY times just how ridiculous and unrealistic that show is! I think it hurt more when she chose the dude that she did, because I definitely had a mancrush on Ben! LOL!!
I watch that show while remembering and thinking about my life values, morals, goals, etc. So my first lesson was one I already know---I can only control me and my life, and others choices aren't my business, and usually have absolutely zero effect on my future. The girl choosing has her own things she is looking for, and it is not for me too judge right or wrong. All I can do is take other things I see or hear and hold them against what I believe to further strengthen or modify my belief set.
Another thing I have a really hard time with is her "loving" one guy, while at the same time she is still tonguing-down with other dudes! How do you have those suppossedly true feelings for a person, but still be able to live with yourself giving all that to another? Baffles me...just baffles me. Of course, these ARE people that apparently suck at relationships to this point in their lives, so I guess we should expect anything!!
And do you think that real people build real-life relationships living in the slums of FIJI??????? REALLY??????? "Hey, let's take a trip in a helicopter today, then fly in a plane to some island for dinner"....uh....yeah...whatever! I looked over at Kelly and reminded her that I can barely afford to take her to eat at Fuji's, so FORGET Fiji!!!!!
Finally, the last thing (of many!) that I want to mention is being blessed and content in my own life. As I watched the events unfold, and watched the choice come down, I was so glad to feel myself feeling lucky as a person for all of the blessings that God allows into my life daily. As a cup-half-full kind of dude, I thank God for bs like these unrealistic shows, because they always make me stop and thank him for simplicity, peace, and joy. That the reality of pursuing him and his ways will ALWAYS ultimately lead to him and his blessings. I enjoy poking at the show, and don't mind knowing that it is on tv and not a true picture of real life----but the picture of Christ on the cross IS a picture of that---it is the picture of the sacrifice that results in us having the opportunity for the BEST life!
I will take that all day long...so take your rose and shove it Bachelorette!
Hope your week ROCKS!!!
Monday, August 1, 2011
Know your role...
As I was driving down the interstate this morning headed to meet my boss, I was listening to ESPN Radio, and they were recapping the Angels/Tigers game from yesterday. For those of you that don't know what happened in that game, Tigers pithcer Justin Verlander had a no-hitter going through seven innings, and then Erick Aybar of the Angels came up and tried to get on base by bunting. He ended up on second in a 3-0 game that the Tigers were leading after Verlander fielded the bunt and errantly threw to first. After the game, Verlander was pretty ugly about the fact that Aybar was trying to get on base by bunting during his potential historic game.
Justin Verlander---SERIOUSLY??????
Does he not understand that Aybar is paid by the Angels organization to help his team win baseball games? His job is NOT to help Mr. Verlander protect his potential no-hitter!!!! I could go on and on about this, but I will stop there.
After hearing this, I got to thinking about life (I do that alot). I got to wondering how often I get confused as to my role in certain things, just as Verlander was confused as to Aybar's.
I think it is very easy for any of us to think of ourselves as more than we are. I am just as guilty as any other in this, and I think it is very natural. As we strive for growth in our lives individually, we feel better about who we are and how much we can be used in different areas, etc. That is where we need to remember checks and balances, and knowing our roles. Doing this will keep us in healthier situations and conversations. Not an easy thing to do, but definitely necessary!
I hope your Monday was fantastic, and that you are ready for a GREAT rest of the week out there! And remember, no matter what you are going through, God is bigger than EVERYTHING, and he can be the thing that makes the difference in your life, so that you can make a difference in another's! LET HIM!!!
Justin Verlander---SERIOUSLY??????
Does he not understand that Aybar is paid by the Angels organization to help his team win baseball games? His job is NOT to help Mr. Verlander protect his potential no-hitter!!!! I could go on and on about this, but I will stop there.
After hearing this, I got to thinking about life (I do that alot). I got to wondering how often I get confused as to my role in certain things, just as Verlander was confused as to Aybar's.
I think it is very easy for any of us to think of ourselves as more than we are. I am just as guilty as any other in this, and I think it is very natural. As we strive for growth in our lives individually, we feel better about who we are and how much we can be used in different areas, etc. That is where we need to remember checks and balances, and knowing our roles. Doing this will keep us in healthier situations and conversations. Not an easy thing to do, but definitely necessary!
I hope your Monday was fantastic, and that you are ready for a GREAT rest of the week out there! And remember, no matter what you are going through, God is bigger than EVERYTHING, and he can be the thing that makes the difference in your life, so that you can make a difference in another's! LET HIM!!!
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